Feminism is often misunderstood as a movement only for women. In reality, it is a shared effort to build a society where both men and women have equal opportunities to grow and succeed. A common misconception is that men have no place in feminism, or that supporting women’s rights somehow weakens their own worth. This is far from the truth. Men are not bystanders in feminism – they are essential partners in building a just and peaceful society.
From families to nations, men have the power to uplift women, challenge harmful traditions, and create a world where equality is a lived reality, not just a discussion.As the saying reminds us: “Behind every successful man stands a strong and intelligent woman; and beside every empowered woman stands a man who respects her strength.”Progress and peace happen when men and women stand together, not against each other.
Why men must engage in feminism
Throughout history, men have held leadership roles in politics, workplaces, religion, and communities. With this influence comes a responsibility—to break down patriarchal systems from within. When men use their voices for equality, progress becomes faster and more impactful.
Mahatma Gandhi believed that a society can never truly progress if it holds back its women. He campaigned for women’s education and condemned social evils like dowry.John Stuart Mill, in his book The Subjection of Women, argued for complete equality between the sexes, seeing women’s oppression as a loss to all of humanity.
In Islam, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasized kindness and respect towards women, stating, “The best among you are those who are best to their wives.” He gave women rights to inheritance, education, and dignity long before many societies did.
In Hinduism, sacred texts like the Rig Veda speak of women as scholars and spiritual leaders. Hindu philosophy teaches that Shakti, the divine feminine energy, is the source of power and creation.
In Christianity, Jesus Christ respected and uplifted women in a time when society marginalized them. He spoke with compassion to women, broke social barriers, and taught that all are equal before God.
In Sikhism, Guru Nanak declared, “Why call her inferior who gives birth to kings?” Sikh teachings promote absolute equality between men and women in all walks of life.
Men can contribute in their daily lives too
In families, fathers who treat their wives and daughters as equals set the standard for future generations. In workplaces, male leaders who promote equal pay and opportunities build fairer workplaces. In society, men who reject toxic masculinity and embrace kindness redefine strength.
Patriarchy harms men too
Patriarchy does not only oppress women; it also confines men. Toxic masculinity teaches boys to hide their feelings and measure worth through dominance. Feminism frees men from these limitations.
Mental Health: Men are often discouraged from seeking help, leading to emotional isolation. Feminism encourages emotional honesty and mental well-being.
Relationships: True equality builds partnerships based on respect and mutual support.
Swami Vivekananda recognized women’s role in society’s moral upliftment. He said, “The best thermometer to the progress of a nation is its treatment of its women.”
Silence supports injustice
Remaining silent in the face of sexism allows injustice to survive. True allyship means taking action—at home, work, and in society.
How men can be authentic feminist allies
In public spaces, when women share ideas in meetings or discussions, listen respectfully and give them the credit they deserve. In families, encourage your daughters’ dreams as much as your sons’. Correct sexist jokes or comments calmly but firmly and encourage paternity leave, shared caregiving, and household work.
Redefine masculinity
Show that strength includes empathy and kindness. Reject harmful phrases like “man up”, celebrate women in leadership roles in all fields.As American writer bell hooks wrote, “Feminism is for everybody.” Men who understand this will help create a better world for all.
Pitfalls to avoid
The nice guy trap: Respect alone is not enough—ongoing reflection and action are essential, performative allyship: Social media posts mean little without real-world action, seeking praise Supporting equality isn’t about applause—it’s about doing what’s right.
Men leading the change: Historical and modern examples, Mahatma Gandhi: Fought for women’s dignity and education, John Stuart Mill: Championed women’s voting rights, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH): Gave women rights to inheritance and education, Jesus Christ: Broke social norms to uplift marginalized women, Guru Nanak: Declared equality of women and men, Barack Obama: Launched ‘It’s On Us’ against sexual violence.
Everyday heroes: Fathers, brothers, husbands who support women’s dreams, A call to action: Let’s build a fairer future together, Educate yourself: Read feminist thinkers like bell hooks, and religious texts promoting equality.
Use your privilege for good: Recommend deserving women for leadership roles, Raise better boys: Teach boys kindness, empathy, and respect for all genders.
Conclusion: A shared future
Feminism is not a battle between men and women – it’s humanity’s stand against injustice. Men’s participation is essential. A world where women are respected and empowered is a world where everyone thrives.
Let’s rise above outdated mindsets and build families, workplaces, and nations where equality is the foundation of peace and prosperity.
(Author is a student of law and hails from Dewer, Lolab. She can be reached at [email protected])