Approaching the first death anniversary (December 30, 2023) of Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s mother, Heeraben, it becomes imperative to reflect on her extraordinary life—a century marked by resilience, simplicity, and unwavering support for her son. Heeraben’s journey from a humble beginning in Vadnagar to the heart of the Indian political landscape serves as a proof to the values she instilled in her family.
Born in Visnagar, Gujarat, Heeraben’s early life was marked by adversity. Losing her mother to the Spanish Flu pandemic at a tender age, she navigated poverty and deprivation, shouldering responsibilities beyond her years. The absence of a formal education did not hinder her growth, and her childhood struggles shaped her into a woman of remarkable fortitude.
Her upbringing in Vadnagar, dwelling in a one-room tenement with mud walls and clay tiles, reflected the simplicity that defined her life. Amidst leaks during the monsoons and a lack of luxuries, Heeraben’s commitment to maintaining a harmonious family atmosphere stood out. The narrative of her cooking on a bamboo machaan and ensuring the family ate together exemplifies her resourcefulness
In a household with meager income, Heeraben undertook various jobs, from washing utensils at neighbors’ houses to spinning the charkha, supplementing the family’s finances. Her unwavering commitment to providing for her children, even during adverse circumstances, underscored the sacrifices she made.
Amidst financial constraints, Heeraben’s commitment to simplicity was evident. The absence of personal assets, her reluctance to wear gold ornaments, and her continued embrace of a modest lifestyle in Gandhinagar highlighted her steadfast dedication to simplicity. Her actions, like collecting rainwater during leaks and creating beauty with recycled items, reflected a profound commitment to conservation.
Her impact on Prime Minister Modi’s character and values was profound. Her emphasis on cleanliness, respect for all living beings, and the promotion of empathy and devotion shaped her son’s worldview. The narrative of her inviting sanitation workers for tea and providing for animals in the neighborhood showcased her compassion and generosity.
Her life was deeply rooted in faith and tradition, maintaining a balance between spiritual practices and practical wisdom. As a Kabirpanthi, her commitment to daily worship and japa, even at an advanced age, signified a deep connection to her beliefs. Her encouragement for a balanced and healthy lifestyle revealed her practical wisdom.
Her unwavering support for her son’s choices, even when they deviated from conventional norms, showcased her unconditional love. The incident where she asked him to ease strict personal rules and her acknowledgment that he was an instrument in the plans of God exemplified her humility.
Throughout her life, Heeraben never complained about hardships or kept expectations from others. Her optimism, contentment, and focus on others’ joys reflected a positive outlook that transcended circumstances. This outlook was encapsulated in her response when people asked if she was proud of her son being the Prime Minister: “Nothing is mine. I am a mere instrument in the plans of God.”
As we commemorate the centenary year of Heeraben’s life, her legacy extends far beyond familial bonds. Her resilience, simplicity, and selflessness serve as an inspiration for generations to come. Heeraben’s journey, etched with stories of hardship, sacrifice, and unwavering support, reinforces the universal significance of a mother’s influence in shaping character and values.
On this solemn occasion marking the first anniversary of Heeraben Modi’s passing, we bow our heads in profound respect and gratitude for a life well-lived. Heeraben’s departure left a void not only in the Modi family but also in the collective memory of a nation that witnessed the quiet strength and enduring spirit of a remarkable woman. As we reflect on the centennial tapestry of her existence, we pay tribute to Heeraben’s legacy—an indomitable spirit that embraced life’s challenges with grace, instilled enduring values, and became a guiding light for her family.
Her memory lives on, cherished and revered, an everlasting source of inspiration for those who find solace in the resilience of the human spirit. On this day, we remember and honor Heeraben Modi with deep reverence, gratitude, and an everlasting sense of admiration.
Heeraben Modi’s life, woven with threads of resilience and sacrifice, stands as a testament to the strength inherent in the role of a mother. Her unwavering commitment to her family, despite facing numerous hardships, paints a poignant portrait of maternal love and fortitude. In the face of adversity, Heeraben not only weathered the storms but also ensured that her children experienced a childhood filled with values, compassion, and a profound appreciation for simplicity. Her legacy serves as a timeless lesson—one that resonates universally—that every mother, irrespective of circumstances, can embrace.
Her journey invites all mothers to follow in her footsteps, fostering an environment of love, instilling values, and imparting the enduring wisdom that life’s challenges can be met with resilience and grace. In doing so, they honor not just Heeraben’s memory but also contribute to a collective tapestry of strength, love, and compassion for generations to come.
Heeraben Modi’s legacy transcends familial boundaries, reaching out to touch the hearts of mothers across India. Her life story, etched with simplicity, determination, and an indomitable spirit, serves as an inspiration to every mother striving to create a nurturing and loving home. Heeraben’s journey reminds mothers that amidst the daily challenges, their sacrifices and efforts do not go unnoticed.
Her commitment to family, coupled with her ability to find joy in the simplest moments, resonates with the essence of motherhood itself. As mothers across the diverse landscapes of India navigate the intricate tapestry of their lives, Heeraben’s legacy becomes a guiding light—a source of strength and encouragement. Through her example, she imparts the timeless wisdom that a mother’s love and resilience have the power to shape not just individual destinies but also contribute to the collective spirit of the nation. In celebrating Heeraben’s legacy, we honor the countless unnamed and unsung heroines who silently weave the fabric of our society with love, dedication, and unwavering strength.
Heeraben Modi stands as a beacon of maternal greatness, having sculpted the character of one of the world’s most influential leaders, Prime Minister Narendra Modi. As the mother who nurtured and guided the future statesman, she played an instrumental role in shaping the values, resilience, and determination that define PM Modi’s leadership. Her influence on him is evident in the Prime Minister’s humility, simplicity, and his unwavering commitment to the well-being of the nation. Heeraben’s greatness as a mother extends beyond the walls of her home, resonating in the decisions and actions of the leader she helped mold.
The bond they shared, woven through shared struggles and triumphs, reflects the profound impact a mother can have on the trajectory of a child’s life. In commemorating Heeraben, we acknowledge not only her role as the mother of a prime minister but also her unparalleled contributions to nurturing a leader who has left an indelible mark on the nation.
(Author is Chairman, Centre for Narendra Modi Studies (CNMS), New Delhi. Email: [email protected])
