You must deal with all sort of disturbances all alone and find solution of every problem than expecting some else to come and do the job
Life is full of surprises and tragedies. Happiness of today can turn into tomorrow’s grief. Both rise and fall are following each other like light and shadow, day and night, morning and evening. You have to face both the sides of the life in order to know the worth of what you like the most.
A person can achieve the highest place of success not merely by thinking and wishing but he faces the deep falls. After each fall you have to bounce back to maintain the momentum. Achieving the height is not much difficult than maintaining that height for long term.
As quoted by Tim Notke, “Hardwork beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard”. After achieving you don’t have to sit idle but to keep yourself involved in keeping up the pace.
The great victorious leaders have seen the worst times of wars, draught, famine, poverty. They have seen the economic breakdown but they didn’t let their nation suffer much and paved the way for development and sustainability.
Smooth roads never make a good driver. The leader who takes out his nation from the downfall crisis is being remembered for centuries. People follow those who have the passion to rise back after every fall.
You can’t escape defeat but you can overcome the effects of defeat on your real life. The fall should prove a stepping stone for your progress. You need to learn the lesson that every fall teaches you.
Nobody is going to uplift you but your own inner motivation will help you every now and then. A timely motivation of speech, video doesn’t help you the way your own soul motivates you for something good. The most important thing you must remember is that people won’t stay with you forever and ever though few exceptions have been seen.
You must deal with all sort of disturbances all alone and find solution of every problem than expecting some else to come and do the job. For time being you will be helped by you fellows but in the long run it is you who has to face everything that will be thrown at you.
To reach the heights of your career, you must associate yourself with people of good quality and good mindset if you esteem your reputation. It is better to be alone than to indulge in bad company.
Negative influences will never take you out from the failure and if you want to avoid the peer pressure of fall, you must shut this bad company once for all. You must develop a mindset that will help you build the happiness and dwell in that rather than taking the artificial ways of relaxing from the burden.
Give yourself a self talk that you need not to dismay from the fall but to alter your mind by the positive thoughts as it may influence you subconscious mind.
You need to stop blaming any one for seeing the worst of life as the more you expect from others the more you get hurt. People don’t care why you felt from the height and what happened in the course. You may face it for some time but not forever.
Everything needs time, it will take you time to retrieve the height you lost but you need to gear up for that from now without procrastinating it further. Time heals everything all you need is to keep patience without losing the temperament.
Those who try to put you down will not succeed for long. Today they may feel happy to make you suffer but tomorrow they will repent on their deeds. One who enjoins on your sufferings of fall, nature won’t let the survive like they think.
People start loving every new thing that come in their way to experience it and start forgetting the time you have put in for their height. No one is going to support you when you need them most and your own thoughts will start haunting you for some time.
Accept the thing that whatever you want to do, do it now, do it on your own, stop expecting, stop waiting, stop the thoughts of help from someone else.
You have been living for years now with much suffering, why are you wasting your time and energy with this thought that you have achieved nothing. Start today, get motivated and life is lying before you.
Make it worth living before it becomes a history and no one is going to think about it. You need to focus on what you have to do, rather than dwelling in the past memories. As they say, “The dark tunnel of change leads to the light of possibility.”
Author is working at Islamic University of Science and Technology (ISUT), Awantipora